Upon reading what you are telling me about his behavior I have a question for you Anabelle?
You are JU in Aries in the 5th conjunct the MO and normally I would expect a confident and optimistic outlook on your question. But I see that you have self-doubt and you raised a concern, he does not respect you. Maybe I did not put enough weigh on the Part of Sickness conjunct your significators.
This sounds like a relationship that is not 'healthy' and I would stay away from him.
What do you think?

You know Ouranus, I normally have an unhealthy self -esteem, fear of rejection (I am chirón in H1 cancer) although I apparently look very safe and I would have reasons to be, but it costs me a lot.
What I see about him is that he seeks interaction, is receptive, but at the same time I feel that he hides something, that it is indecipherable. There is something ambivalent in their way of communicating and expressing that it makes me feel very insecure or confused. The last time we saw each other, two weeks ago, he was very ambivalent, and looking at the chart I guess he is at a personal moment of change, and having to mature and assume serious responsibilities.
I would be very interested if you could explain about the part of Sickness, I stayed thinking about what you told me.

The Part of Sickness is attributed to Hermes and is mostly used in medical astrology. In Horary, it can be used regarding health questions. But its scope is wider than that. I look at it when conjunct an important significator to reveal the 'health' of the question. For example, if you ask about your car and Mercury or the ruler of the 3rd is conjunct this Part, you car needs to see a doctor in mechanic.
You are best able to see if this relationship is a good fit for you but I would not cross the line if he does not respect you. This is a sine qua non for every woman. You need to be treated with respect, more so you should not have to ask for it.

Best to you,
Ouranos

oh how interesting! just saw it, part sickness in 9 aries, partile jupiter!
I also thought that he is Mercury in Aquarius in cadent house: volatile, inconstant, scattered, variable, perhaps even immature. It's not a place for me now, at least from what my significators show.
I imagine that his encounter with Saturn will be complex, because Saturn is in his sign, he has just finished his synodic cycle, and he is angular (very dignified). Mercury will have to respond in an adult way, Saturn will demand under his rules. I think he's going to go through a rite of passage into adulthood, assuming professional-family responsibilities...we'll have to see what all of that brings.
For now I am not going to act, except in the professional relationship that unites us.

oh how interesting! just saw it, part sickness in 9 aries, part jupiter!
I also thought that he is Mercury in Aquarius in cadent house: volatile, inconstant, scattered, variable, perhaps even immature. It's not a place for me now, at least from what my significators show.
I imagine that his encounter with Saturn will be complex, because Saturn is in his sign, he has just finished his synodic cycle, and he is angular (very dignified). Mercury will have to respond in an adult way, Saturn will demand under his rules. I think he's going to go through a rite of passage into adulthood, assuming professional-family responsibilities...we'll have to see what all of that brings.
For now I am not going to act, except in the professional relationship that unites us.

oh how interesting!! part of sickness in °9 aries! It seems that there is something unhealthy, in relation to me!
You say that he doesn't respect me in relation to this? Or from what I asked you about Mars ascendant opposition?
When I see this hourly chart, the fact that he is Mercury in Aquarius suggests immaturity to me, someone volatile who finds it difficult to make commitments. That encounter with a dignified Satuno must be or will be hard, who has just finished his synodic cycle, and is angular; He is going to demand maturity and responsibility in the manner of Satuno. Then Mercury passes into Pisces, the fall of it.
For this reason, I believe that trying another type of approach outside of the professional sphere would not be beneficial, I feel that we are in very different moments.

I wrote an answer yesterday but it didn't get published, or I don't see it!

I will leave my comment on this chart, I am Mariluna hello to everybody.
He doesnt seem to be in a relationship, he is Mercury in a fixed signed Aquarius, quite disattached, but also moving away from JUPITER (L1) into a conjunction to Saturn. Saturn is L8 and L9 for him, so maybe he is about to do any sort of trip? Any foreign person who is special to him? Maybe a therapy or any sort of higher study?
The moon is peregrine, disposited by Mars L5 of romance and sexuality, which seem to be very important for the person making the question. The moon also represents L1 who is the one making the moves. Next aspect is a sextile to MARS, L5 This sextile is applicative and received by MARS since the MOON is applying from Aries. Mars is L5. Next, MOON is doing a sextile to MERCURY but this one has no reception by MERCURY L7. This means that the Consultant will contact another man (L5) before contacting MERCURY person. The MARS man, will be more receptive to her than MERCURY. Moon also rules 8 house, that could mean that the consultant is anguished by love matters, and she may be doing her moves based on this emotion. LeT us know what happens!