Hi all! I'm wondering if anyone has any insight on which indications would confirm if someone has blocked you on their phone? I've been struggling to contextualize this using traditional sources. Anyway, here's some background followed by my analysis:

The quesited is the mother of one of my child's playmates. The children have gotten along very well over the past 6 months and they favor each other greatly as playmates. The mother and I are about the same age and have had cordial and respectful interactions with each other thus far. I tend to be the one who initiates setting up the playdates, which she has never declined an invitation and, on our last meeting, she seemed to be looking forward to the next meetup.

Fast forward two days ago. I sent her a text to set up another playdate but instead of the message appearing blue (indicating another iMessage user) the message came up green. This can have multiple meanings (maybe she didn't have a cellular signal at the moment, maybe she switched to a different phone, maybe she didn't pay the bill this month, etc) but the question that came to me yesterday after I hadn't received a reply was "Did she block me?"

Analysis:
The chart fits the question and is quite radical as my natal ascendant degree is rising. My significator L1 the Sun is separating from a conjunction with L7 Saturn in Pisces, 8th house. Both L1 and L7 are peregrine, with Saturn combust in the derived 2nd house, which seems to me as evidence of a financial issue, ie. didn't pay the phone bill this month. I'm aware that she is in the process of moving to a different apartment in the city which could factor into a strain on finances. Both L1 and L7 are disposed by Jupiter in detriment in the 11th house. This seems to confirm the friendly nature of interactions albeit with some striking differences in personal backgrounds and worldview. Or maybe I have overlooked some offense as my significator (Sun) is the afflicting influence here (combustion)?

Furthermore, the Moon as my co-signifactor is besieged by malefics, separating from a sextile of Mars (ruler of the derived 3rd, communications) and applying to oppose L7 Saturn. Both malefics are quite heavily afflicted, and with the impending eclipse, it seems that any further communication, if there is any, would tend to be hostile and with antipathy.

One last point of note, as it also involves our children. I note that Jupiter is the ruler of my child, placed in Gemini. So my child takes a liking to her child, however, Mercury refrains from the completing the sextile as it is stationing retrograde. Her child is a natal Aries and mine a natal Gemini. So a possible additional factor is that her child had a change of heart, didn't want to play with mine anymore, and the mother cut communication.

My conclusion is more of a both/and scenario, where finances are involved in her not communicating but also she personally has reservations about continuing these playdates due to her kid having a change of heart. At the heart of the matter, I know that the core motivation for my question comes from my concerns about my child having healthy and positive friendships with other children, and a desire to hold on to this one as it seems to be the most positive thus far.

Any insights are great welcomed and appreciated.

Hi Terry,

Do you have reason to suspect your acquaintance's son has an issue with your son? I am taking a slightly different look at the chart. Your son is 5th house, his friend is 11th from the 5th, Venus. His playmate's mother would thus be the Moon. She seems to be tied up with a significant problem given the symbology of the blood moon eclipse involving Saturn.

It would be hard to imagine this type of opposition would show up simply from someone blocking you via social contacts, unless maybe it greatly upset you? I suspect the eclipse is pointing to a problem she is dealing with. I could be wrong but she appears to be the one besieged and Saturn is prohibiting an aspect of the Moon to you (Sun).

Do you think Saturn in Pisces fits her as a significator better than Moon in Virgo?

Clearly there is a blockage of communication given the planet of communications is stationary. It is disposited by Mars, in fall in her house. Communication is damaged in some way. Mars can represent anger, but also accidents and other issues. My first inclination would be to check on her and see if she is OK rather than assuming she is ghosting you. I wouldn't expect something so difficult to show up simply because someone decides to cut off contact with playdates. Then again, I don't know how this impacted you on a psychological level and that perhaps being the implications of the eclipse. Usually this is more so a crisis situation.

Hi Tanit3333,

Thank you for your reply and interpretation!

I don't have any objective reason to think that her child has a problem with mine. At their last playdate, they had a bit of an argument over taking turns on a bike but nothing big or earth shattering that would call for a falling out. I only followed the line of thought that her child didn't want to play anymore due to how I assigned the mother's significator as a 7th house person.

In light of what you have suggested, I think the Moon in Virgo is a closer representation of her as opposed to Saturn in Pisces. She is highly organized and very detailed oriented, working as a warehouse manager. I would do well to remember that the assigned significator should describe the quesited accurately.

In following your breakdown, it seems more likely that her phone is broken in some way and that she herself is possibly injured, hence why there has been no response. I'll attempt to reach out again and report back if I get a response. She is the type of person who is glued to her phone so it struck me as odd that the message never went through.

Thank you for the perspective and advice. I very much appreciate it.