Wngshan, maybe you are looking for something like this http://www.facade.com/yesno/ ?
While I do not want to defend astrology I think the problem is that

I'm ready to throttle someone... but who ?

I think it will not make you feel better if you know for sure who did damaged your marble. It will only make you more angry. You probably also do not feel better speaking about astrology or this forum with criticism. Maybe you may consider instead to look for ways how to make you happier and than use astrology or whatever else on the way. As I think this is what astrology is for - to make people happier.

And I am sorry what your mother did. It must have left you with huge pain and I think you are a great person if she hurt you that much and you still care for her. God bless you Wangshan !

Thank you Pavla for trying to smooth things over with humour and
consideration. Wangsham you are clearly not happy with the posts here so I think it is best that this thread is not developed further.