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Thanks for your ideas on this Deb. It's probably the most well-rounded evaluation of PHA that I've heard and on reflection I can only agree with every word of it.

Cheers...

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Our little group came to the conclusion that we really needed more input from the querent to get a satisfactory answer ... upon turning to the person who put the question forth to the group to ask them to get more info ... they responded that they 'couldn't remember which one of two potential women had asked'.
Well, if they've at least managed to narrow it down to two, why doesn't this person approach both women? Seems strange that they can't remember when apparently the woman was "at her wits end" :?