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Hello,
I am completely new to horary though I am pretty ok with astrology in general. I have been reading a lot of your very good articles on your web site, however I still have so many questions.
I made a chart ? for me and my ex lover..(Belgrade,Serbia 15/12/2005 05:13 pm ) Unfortunately , since the question came to me out of the blue and I thought that than it should be the moment when I would receive the most accurate answer , I didn?t really phrase the question properly. In fact I just asked : ? what will happen to us ? though of course I did have in mind if we will be back together.
So now ? looking at the chart , I am represented by moon in gemini , which is really not feeling very well, in 12th house on the midpoint between Saturn and mars and in opposition of sun and Pluto ( exact). Saturn ? which is a significator of my lover is not feeling any better I would say ? in leo ,retrograde, square to mars and Jupiter ,opposition to Neptune. Would I count Venus as his coosignificator? It is in the seventh house but almost on the cusp of the eight ( 4-5 degrees ) . Venus is in 00.00 aquarius. Does this degree meen something ? like new beginning ? For me or him? I don?t really see any contact of moon and Saturn here ( even if I always do the tests on your website very correctly I have a hard time to define the process of looking to the chart ? unless it is very obvious , like a direct aspect between significators.) , and I guess there will be nothing between us ?However there is so much obviously going on in this chart and having in mind my question : what will happen to us? I was wondering if you could help. In fact I would be very gratefull if you can give us all some kind of schedule : like what to look first,?how to know how both of us are feeling at the moment etc.
I have a hardest time finding out the level of importance of various contacts, dignities,triplicities?and stuff. Thank you so much..