hi madeleine,

thanks for sharing! that is a positive story. i haven't looked at the chart data since i last posted on this thread you had initiated some time ago..

Hello James,

I just wanted to update and let the forum here know how my plans took a slightly different turn than what I thought.

I felt the changes for a long time, but I kind of went with the flow of life. Starting a restaurant with my partner being a non EU-citizen was not simple. It took a lot of administration. But we were lucky that somehow he got a positive response and got his work permit. It all fell perfectly into place.

We found the perfect location on the right time and the right people to help us decorate. The bank miraculously gave us a loan at very good conditions. So it all felt as "meant to be". In my daytime job I felt more and more frustrated and bored after 16yrs of routine office work. I never could have dreamed that I would actually enjoy the job I'm doing now, running the restaurant. Especially the contact with the customers, and working together with my partner. Our bond has grown so strong that past year. Eventhough we had stress moments

I'm still somehow puzzled by that Neptune transit on top my natal Jupiter (lord of the 7th house). some astrologers say it means 'rose coloured glasses', to good to be true and after the transit goes, the ugly truth will come out. that still worries me.

Saturn is still in my 6th house but in the sign of sagittarius. He will pass my descendant on 24? ...end of everything ? I don't know.

I remember you said primary direct saturn is on my descendant now too, so somehow I would consider it a committed relationship rather than a break up in a few years.

I don't see any other signs of breaking up or everything I have so far falling apart. On the contrary. Progressive Jupiter is now stationing to go in direct mode. I think that's an important positive turn ?

Madeleine wrote:Hello James,

I just wanted to update and let the forum here know how my plans took a slightly different turn than what I thought.

I felt the changes for a long time, but I kind of went with the flow of life. Starting a restaurant with my partner being a non EU-citizen was not simple. It took a lot of administration. But we were lucky that somehow he got a positive response and got his work permit. It all fell perfectly into place.

We found the perfect location on the right time and the right people to help us decorate. The bank miraculously gave us a loan at very good conditions. So it all felt as "meant to be". In my daytime job I felt more and more frustrated and bored after 16yrs of routine office work. I never could have dreamed that I would actually enjoy the job I'm doing now, running the restaurant. Especially the contact with the customers, and working together with my partner. Our bond has grown so strong that past year. Eventhough we had stress moments

I'm still somehow puzzled by that Neptune transit on top my natal Jupiter (lord of the 7th house). some astrologers say it means 'rose coloured glasses', to good to be true and after the transit goes, the ugly truth will come out. that still worries me.

Saturn is still in my 6th house but in the sign of sagittarius. He will pass my descendant on 24? ...end of everything ? I don't know.

I remember you said primary direct saturn is on my descendant now too, so somehow I would consider it a committed relationship rather than a break up in a few years.

I don't see any other signs of breaking up or everything I have so far falling apart. On the contrary. Progressive Jupiter is now stationing to go in direct mode. I think that's an important positive turn ?

Track the nodal transit for what you consider fated or Karmic events.

North node is transiting your personal planets- Venus->Mercury-> and now Sun(male partner for females).

Jan 2014 - NN in Early scorpio moving to venus in Libra.
Dec 2015- NN moved into virgo to your natal sun.


Algol so close to MC in the natal- no wonder you are head over heels to leave the current profession and dive into a new.


HTH

PD

that's right !

NN was exactly conjunct Venus when I met my Tibetan partner and transiting Venus was conjunct the SN

It felt fated for sure. As if all recent past occurences lead up to that moment when we met...a string of coincidences,misunderstandings,miscommunications with other people....looking back it's weird. If only one piece of that puzzle would have been different, we would never have met.

I often wondered about that

But indeed, a compleet chapter of my life is over and a new one began. I recently had progressed Moon conjunct Progressed Sun, so a new life cycle started.

Hello Madeleine,

Thanks for the update. Since things are going so smoothely now, I wouldn't worry about the potentially difficult aspects. Sometimes those don't manifest as strongly as we expect them to, or in quite a different way. Certainly you already experienced their harsh side by some difficulty with the immigration office, but obvipusly managed to settle them. Opening up a restaurant offering food from a foreign culture (Jupiter), moreover Sushi (Neptune), is all by itself a way to express the significant transit involving those two planets.

Keep us posted and best wishes to the two of you from

Michael

Hello,

I read this thread once again. It's been 4 years since my life was turned upside down.

Unfortunately nothing positive came out of it. I'm ashamed to say I made hasty decisions back then and Michael Sternbach was right to say in one of his replies that the love intrest would be short lived.

Since you guys put so much effort in helping me out and pointing me towards transits and planetary alignments to watch out for, I really wanted to update.

In september 2016, after being rejected at first, the wife and children of my Tibetan partner arrived in Europe anyway. He used some forged documents to prove his marriage in Tibet, which never really happened. French immigration has no idea the documents are false, so he was granted family reunion.

As soon as they arrived, he moved out of my house and went to live with his wife and two kids just accross the border in France

In august 2017 we opened a second restaurant. That was already decided and done before the family arrived. So there was no way to withdraw and stop the opening.
Furthermore in august 2017 the youngest child was diagnosed with a malignent brain tumor and had to undergo surgery, chemo and radiation therapy. He is as good as healed now and goes to school in France with his older brother.

The business is struggling to survive. Apparently people in my region of the country are very traditionally stuck to their own European gastronomy. We are on the brink of bankruptcy. I withdrew myself as manager of the company.
My Tibetan partner didn't want to end our relationship. He felt he had to go live with his family and take responsibility for them, but at the same time he didn't want to let go of me. So for a while we kept the relationship going. Until his child got sick. I was very unhappy in my role as 'mistress', so it was a matter of time before that ended too (when his youngest son got sick).

Today the relationship is purely business. Withdrawing myself from the company takes time.

Since this relationship has ended, I've had a very hard time. Emotionally I'm on the verge of depression. i don't sleep anymore, and have anxiety as a continuous black cloud hanging over me.
Financially I've never been so much in danger as of now. I lost a huge amount of my savings which I will never get back and I have a huge amount of taxes to pay. So I am forced to find more income.

End of october we close the restaurant in my hometown. the other restaurant is 25km away and my Tibetan ex-partner will run that restaurant with his wife. I am not welcome there when she is there. She reacts very violently towards me when she sees me.

I guess the final cords are being cut now and I will have to learn a lesson yet again. It must be in my natal chart. I am an easy victim for people who need help. My humanitarian empathy has nearly destroyed me.

Saturn is still transiting my 7th house (Placidus). Jupiter is transiting the 6th house Scorpio and Neptune is finishing the opposition transit to my Sun.

I am hoping for a ray of light at the end of a tunnel. Next year january Saturn will trine my Sun, and Jupiter will transit my DC (stationary for one month exactly 24° on my natal DC).
So I hope somehow I will be set free and can go back to my life like it was before.

Just wanted to let you know the outcome. I guess Saturn is malefic in my chart and so is Jupiter. Both of them out of sect and retrograde in my natal chart.

If someone would want to look at what's happening in my chart I would really appreciate it.

Madeleine wrote:Another update....this story just goes on and takes stranger turns....

the unthinkable happened...I fell in love with a Tibetan man, living in Paris France (in the middle of asylum procedure).

Now I noticed some transits coming up that might have to do with relationship, but still...the combination I can't make sense of.

Progressed descendant conjunct natal Saturn in the 9th house in Aquarius : might fit already. Relationship with obstacles and age difference. He is younger than me but doesn't care about age.

Transit Neptune will conjunct Jupiter (7th house lord) soon. I'm thinking about rose coloured glasses and illusion/desillusion here, but also me wanting to 'rescue' him. And it already feels that way. I'm helping him with his paperwork and I'm being very supportive. He's suffered a lot back in Tibet (has been imprisoned and beaten and tortured). My natal Neptune in 6th house, house of service to others is also significant !

Then the transit North Node is hitting my natal Venus. Seems carmic.

We had the most romantic weekend in Paris last weekend, ever...Mars is transiting my 5th house and was stationary on my natal Venus. Jupiter, lord 7th was conjunct my natal Mars.

I see all that now. But how do I put this together in seeing a possible outcome to all this ?

I never ever thought about relationship anymore, but now ofcourse the whole picture changed.

If someone wants to help me out here to give some meaning to this, I would be grateful. I am too emotional to interpret myself. I already lost my heart to this man and ofcourse hope for a future together, but the obstacles are huge...

To make matters even more complicated. He has a wife and children in India. He misses his children most, but relationship not really. He fell in love with me too.

I'm most afraid Neptune will totally cloud my vision...and he's still 5degr away from conjuncting Jupiter

In my previous reply I talked about a Tibetan refugee, but it's not him. Just to make things clear.

I just noticed I also have progressed ASC conjunct natal Saturn in 9th in aquarius next year.Mine is of the sect. And Júpiter will be in 7th in sagitarius

Hi TT

hope your transits and progressions will go well.

As in my chart both Saturn and Jupiter are retrograde and out of sect, I think they don't work out very nicely for me in transits and progressions.

However both have changed direction by progression recently.

Next year Jupiter will transit over my DC and will stand still stationary on the DC degree (24°) for a full month.

In January Saturn will trine my Sun for a short time.

I have no idea what to expect. Will both planets give me more difficulties, or will they behave in a better way ?

I use profection also. I am in a 9th house profection this year. Means Saturn is my LOY, just like he was last year (Lord of the 8th house).

8th house is a crisis and transformational house. Always have been difficult years in the past when profection came to this house.

9th house profection should be a little easier. I hope