There are two places to look for this - the timing of the perfection of the aspect, and the ruler of the 4th house (The end of the matter)

Got it! Will do, I'll be spending all weekend figuring this out.. Thank you for that fascinating analysis.
- Taurus7 -

Taurus7,

Cheer up! Things happen for a reason, I believe. It seems to me when relationship go sour is for a bigger purpose..... go figure....
Most of us are looking for the "soulmates in the true sense of it. My synastry chart with my X person showed amazing things... conjunctions and trines indicating deep and true love..... soulmate connections.... however, we are not together, and it doesn't look like we will.....
My best wishes for you.
"Journee"