Hello everyone,
I’m a new member and post my first time.
I met this guy before Covid, when we had just two encounters. We start again to meet at the work place lately in the last 2 months (we are colleagues in different departments) and last night we had a date at my place for the first time since 2020.
I like him and confessed it to him but he said that he would like to remain friends with benefit. I accept it but obviously I want that it will transform in a relationship.

Could this happen? Will we be in a relationship together in the future?

Many thanks in advance for any insight

Welcome to Skyscript Luna23,
Normally when someone post a question in the Horary section, we need to read your personal interpretation of the chart.
What do you think?
I am also curious when you mention 'to remain friends with benefit'. What does it mean to you?

Best to you,
Ouranos

Hello Ouranos,

First of all thank you for your answer and clarification. With friends with benefit I meant sexual partners, no romance.
Now I’ll give a try and interpret my chart, but I’m not good at it and maybe I’m wrong.

I’m signified by the ruler of the ascendent Saturn, which is in the 1st house but retrograde in the first degrees of Pisces. He is signified by the sun always in the 1st his house in Virgo.

He actually is a Virgo natal sun with also mars and mercury in Virgo, his natal moon is in Pisces in conjunction with his Jupiter retrograde. Thats maybe indecisive person. but I’ll come back to the horary chart…
So, our 2 main significators Saturn and Sun are not doing any aspect, furthermore the Saturn is retrograde which I think that is an indicator of a No response to the question. The sun, his significator is in a tide conjunction with mercury which indicates he is with someone else, I don’t know if in relationship (but I don’t think so) or just playing with another woman, but he’s focused with a woman, which is not me.

Then the moon, the Venus, the mats, are all making separate aspects between them, so another indicator of a no answer.

That would be my interpretation of my chart. For sure is something wrong because I’m not very good at it, but I like this astrology part and I love to give a try.

Thank you Ouranos and anybody would like to answer.

Regards,
Luna23

Hello Luna,

I actually agree with your judgment. I will just add this: traditional horary stipulates that a questited being in his own house has no intention to develop the relationship (William Lilly: "little thought of the querent"). Here your guy is in the 7th. Also, there is no reception between Moon and Venus to make the sextile work.

I think the answer is a clear no.

Horary aside, if you don't mind an unsolicited bit of advice: I wouldn't invest any more feelings and time in this guy. He has already made up his mind about you, and he has told you as much. His intentions are very clear. The horary chart only confirmed this. The way I see it, if a guy even has an inkling of feelings for you, he would not have shut you down immediately like this.

I would slow right down and keep a healthy distance. The arrangement he suggested would serve him right, but add to your confusion, blur your boundaries, and set you up for future heartbreak.

All the best Luna. Regardless of your final decision, I hope this chart has helped.

Amelia

Hello Amelia,

Thank you so much for your precious answer.

I could turn as cold as ice with him, but I’m in my fifties and don’t have anyone else for now in my life, that’s why sometimes could be a good thing to have him in my intimacy. I like something about his energy, idk exactly what, but anyway I like this energy more than his persona.

However, I am curious what is the reason why he doesn’t want a relationship with me. With other words, what is he doesn’t like about me that makes him keep me like a secret only for the intimacy? If could be read in this chart.

I know also the moon is important in the horary chart. It is my co-significator, in my 4th house, conjunctions the IC which is good for me, and also in his 10th house which I don’t understand what could signify, maybe because my position is above his at job.

Thank you again Amelia, also for your advices.

Wishing to hear from you soon,

Regards,
Luna