Which house...

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If I ask the question of... is a relationship (that I am not a part of) in trouble... I am the quesitor but what houses do I look at to represent the relationship? If I am asking to see the nature of a relationship, why would include myself if the relationship doesn't include me? Ack! I am confused!

michele

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Well, you have to ask youself why you care about it? If you want to be involved with one of the people in the relationship, then you are involved. Other than that, or if the person is a friend and you think they could be in danger, why as the question? A chart is only as good as the question.
Mark F

Relationship question

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Michele, you must decide what relationship the person you're asking about has to you.

You are signified by the Asc.. The quesited, the other person's relationship, depends on what that person is to you.

For example, are you asking about a friend? Then use the 11th house of the radical chart as that person's first house. If you're asking about your friend's marriage, then you would use the 11th house (your friend's 1st house) and THEIR 7th house, which is YOUR fifth house. (I hope it's not too confusing yet!)

Or if they're your boss, use the 10th house. Your employee? Use the 6th house as their first and so on. Does this make sense?