I am wondering about the right time of this question. Namely, I had in my mind, but I mentioned it to my colleague astrologer, who refused to do it and I think I haven't articulated it clearly. So tonight I formed a question Will my husband come back to me i.e. will we reconcile.
the background of the situation is that we haven't parted due to fight, or anything -.... the problem is he is very ill now, generally he's depressed, mad, angry, ... keeps telling he's had enough of it, but that "it" is unknown. he does not know how to articulate it. I'm affraid he has some deep psych. issues and therefore rejects me (he had similar phase about year ago). At this time I am least important to him, but only 20 days ago we wereok. So everything happened suddenly.

So the chart was set for this time and place
24. feb. 2008 21:36 Mostar GMT+01h00m

The ruler of ASC 23 Li is VE at 8 Aq conjunct ME at 10 Aq, his significator is 7th house in Aries with Mars in GE 27.

So for this to be a positive answer these two should have applying aspect, right?
But there is no such aspect, until Mars enters Cancer and Venus enters Pisces, which happens middle march. So they both change signs. Is this right? Is it a positive answer since they change signs?

another thing is Moon which is 19 Li near the cusp of ASC, it makes first aspect with Mars, the husband, then with Saturn, dispositor of Venus, and then with Venus, before she changes sign and makes it with mars.

So I'm confused. I turned to the dispositors of significators and found out that Saturn, the dispositor of the querent will make an opposition with Mercury, dispositor of Mars.

I am rather new here, but I know the basics. So would anyone try to help me with detanglin this question.

much obliged

Hi, Survivor

Where were you located when you asked the question? Nearest city and the province/state would be helpful.

Thanks!

Pam

spirlhelix wrote:Hi, Survivor

Where were you located when you asked the question? Nearest city and the province/state would be helpful.

Thanks!

Pam

Quick question,

I was under the impression that a horary chart should be for the time the question was received and understood and the place for the chart was the location of the astrologer. If you were going to answer her question, you wouldn't need her location info would you?

Hi, Mithra

If I were the astrologer and Survivor were the querent, I would use my location and the time I understood the question.

However, Deb has set up this list so that the person posting the question is the astrologer. We post questions to the list which have been asked and analyzed by the astrologer (person posting the question). Then we all can add our contributions to the original post.

I like her format, since it ensures that the posts are being made by serious students at least. Otherwise, we could get into assumptions about fees being charged by the astrologer to the querent, etc., and I'm pretty sure that was not Deb's intention.

I also like that if we are all looking at the same sample chart, we can all better compare our responses to the question and describe how we apply the techniques we use to the same chart.

I hate to put words in Deb's mouth, though. Check out her "Please read" post.

Please remember that this is an astrology discussion forum - not a free chart interpretation/tutorial service. The forum exists for committed students of astrology and we don't want posts saying 'this is my birth data - what does it mean?', or 'I've done a horary chart - what does it mean?' Even if you put 'please', 'I desperately NEED your help', or several exclamation marks after your header, we still don't want those kinds of posts.

We are, however, interested in discussing topics that help students understand broad issues of relevance to all astrologers. So requests for information on particular techniques are appropriate and often this is best explained within the context of a chart you are working on.

I added the italics!

Whose "when and where" data we use depends upon who the astrologer is. I am requesting Surivor's chart data.

Hope this is useful!

Best regards,

Pam

So the chart was set for this time and place
24. feb. 2008 21:36 Mostar GMT+01h00m

I wonder if you are trying to have a child.

Moon is on the Ascendant (which I often see in women who are striving for pregnancy), trining Mars, your husband, in eight degrees. North Node on the cusp of the fifth also may refer to attempts to become pregnant.

Moon is in the Via Combusta, which would make it difficult to predict the outcome of your question. The importance of becoming a mother may be more powerful than your emotional strength can sustain at the moment.

Are you a mother already, or planning to become one soon?


Best wishes,

Pam

No, but we were talking about one as soon as I get steady job. And I am dying to be a mom but as far as this situation is concerned, my husband and I are "just friends" now he wants to be there for me, celebrate my birthday with me (i'm turning 30 so it's important to me ) he supports me financially etc. But he refuses the idea of being physically intimate with anyone... not just me... and he is so certain that things will not change... that we will not be a couple again... He's in rather difficult period now, and I decided to have him in my life, even this way. I'd rather have him near as a friend, than not have him in my life at all. At least untill and if he gets better.
So what will happen, I don't know.
Maybe, when time passes, I ask another horary quastion?

Hi, Survivor

Yes, I think you would be wise to ask the question again later. I support you in that approach, particularly because of the Moon in Via Combusta. It sounds as though you are content with the decision to stay with him for now, and it sounds as though this decision rests in your hands. You have not stated that he wanted to divorce you or
cut you out of his life.

Just ask again when the question becomes urgent.

Wishing you and your husband well.

Pam

He did not state a divorce, yet he might, since his state of being is not getting any better... well he wants me to be there for him and vice versa, but he does not want any emotional or physical attachment...
time will tell, definitely
I am not satisfied with the situation right now, but I can't do anything about it. Just wait and see... and I have a lot of work right now, on my career and education so I'm going to concentrate on that.

thank you