AP - Should we reveal our birth charts?
Posted: Wed Oct 15, 2003 10:37 pm
27 Sept 2003
Deb:
When I was at the Faculty summer school I got into conversation one morning over whether it was wise for astrologers to release details of their own horoscopes. I find it hugely frustrating that we don?t have accurate and reliable birth charts for people such as William Lilly, who are of great interest to us and clearly in a position to leave the information behind for the benefit of future students. I?ve never hesitated to let my details be known. I don?t see it as revealing the ?private me? just the astrological factors I was born under.
But the view I was confronted with was that when we expose our horoscope we make it possible for other people to ?take from our power? and negatively affect our energies. I don?t go along with this at all. I see my birth chart as a graphic representation of an astronomical moment, which I alone animate. Even so, I know many astrologers who take great pains to keep their birth details private.
I thought I?d ask forum readers for their views on this; and if you are one of those people who doesn?t want others to know the details of your birth chart ? why is this? (Of course, you might not want me to know that either )
Also, if you were working on an issue for a client, and s/he brought along another person's data without his/her knowledge or consent - hoping that it will help you place them in a more informed position to take advantage of a situation - is there any reason why you'd consider this unethical?
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Sue:
This secrecy of charts really annoys me. There are some well known astrologers who are famous for going to great lengths to keep their charts a secret while spending their lives talking about the charts of others. I think it is a real double standard. I don't believe for a moment that making my chart public is giving away my power. I can't expect people to share their details with me and then refuse to give in return. It is very unlikely that I will ever be famous enough for anyone to be the slightest bit interested in my birth details but they are certainly welcome to them and they are free to interpret my chart in any way they choose.
As for the other matter, I suppose it depends on what is meant by taking advantage of the situation. I would probably do it in a way that might help the client make sense of the situation and their place in it rather than to take advantage of it over another person.
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Deb:
I mention this second point because when I was a member of the APA they had a big debate running about whether it was ethical to make use of someone else's horoscope in a client reading without that person's permission. It's often done in relationship matters, but to make this more black and white, let's say it's done in a situation where your client wants advice on how to get the best timing for a legal dispute with another person - and brings that other person's chart along. Obviously, they are wanting to make the situation astrologically advantageous for them, and disadvantageous for the other person.
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Sue:
Okay, I see what you are asking now. I probably wouldn't use the other person's chart without their permission. I also wouldn't see it as necessary. I would see my role as working with the client and helping them to see what they can do to strengthen or understand their own position regardless of what the other person has in their chart.
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Deb:
I feel like I'm messing with your head
Say it was necessary, or at least useful to use that information, and say it was your sister you were looking to help out, and she was extremely distraught, so you were anxious to use every last drop of useful information that you could to help her out and find a good time to act. Would you use it then?
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Sue:
Geez Deb. Give me a break. It's after 1am here. It's been a long day
To be honest I'm not sure how I would answer that. It would be pretty hard to refuse a distraught sister. I would probably do it as long as I didn't feel as though I was compromising my own integrity. It reminds me of a case that Barbara Watters talks about in her Horary Astrology. Her long term client had been accused of sexual assault and she used every bit of information she could to make sure the accuser was put into a difficult position and her client would be found innocent. She was convinced he was innocent. But what if she knew him to be guilty. Would she still do it? In those sorts of cases you often won't know.
I think there are certain circumstances where I would do it but I don't know that it would be that clear cut as to what those circumstances might be.
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Tom:
Hello Deb and Sue and all,
I may have told this anecdote before, and if I did, I'm sorry but it is appropriate. Several years ago I participated in an astrology newsgroup and the topic of giving out one's birth information came up. There were some who had no problem with i,t and others who did as a matter of privacy. One comment I'll never forget came from a young woman from Europe, possibly the UK I don't recall.
She was annoyed at people who gave out such personal information without regard to any sense of propriety. She was particularly annoyed at Americans who in her words, thought nothing of giving out their birth data to any one who asked but who would never get undressed on a public beach.
I would have said the opposite.
I am not terribly concerned about what anyone thinks of my chart. I'm too subjective to give myself an honest reading, so I might get insight from others. However giving out my birthdate, and place is helpful to the unscrupulous who might use that to swipe my identity or perhaps obtain a false social security card in order to adopt my identity to escape the law or a jealous lover.
I've given out my birth data online and even on this list, but I am increasingly reluctant to do so unless I know the person.
As for using the chart of a third party who has no knowledge of the request, I'm queasy on that, too. Circumstances should dictate. A parent having problems with a child, even an adult child, might be looking for legitimate insight, andI would probably use the information then.
Someone venturing a chart of a person they dislike and want to gain advantage over would make me reluctant to help unless the thrid party was a known criminal or threat to the individual who is seeking help (how often does that happen?). I would stay out of divorce messes. Been there; done that; got the T-shirt and don't wish to revisit even vicariuously.
I guess there are too many variables to give a concrete all-purpose answer.
Tom
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Viola:
As for the birth information, I don't have a problem with showing mine. Nobody can criticize me the way I can. Nobody can harm me the way I can, as well.
Astrology as one of the best tools for self searching journeys should actually reduce the need to hide to a necessary minimum. If it is not doing so, if a person is involved in power games, then the things have gone the oposite way of what they should have. I was much much more secretive before studying astrology than I'm now. Of course this doesn't mean I'm doing the blabla all the time. Many acquaintances of mine, especially the nodding ones, even don't know I'm in astrology, and the reason is simple - I'm not particularly interested in their opinion.
As for the second - life can make all sorts of messy situations, but there's one thing I've learnt - two or three times in my present job I went against the rules (by rules I mean the sensible ones), thinking this would do some good in the situation given. However it didn't turn out that way. I regreted it later. Mind you, this is not the recipe - this is just a personal experience. Maybe it was me who was bound to learn such a lesson.
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Lulu:
On 2003-09-26 17:19, Tom Callanan wrote:
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Deb:
Thanks for bringing that up, I?d never even considered that angle. I think Tom and I are the only ones who have offered birth data online, along with full names and locations, so I?ve edited the post where you gave your birth data Tom, to show only co-ordinates and not birth place.
As for this issue of using data without permission, I don?t think there is a black and white answer and the only thing I don?t like is when people try to turn it into one. As an astrologer I see it as my God-given right to use any astrological data I can that might be useful to me. If the information is available, then I don?t regard it as anyone?s intellectual property. The deeper issue is, not whether we give advice that might benefit one person to the detriment of another, using data with or without their permission, but whether we do that at all. We frequently have to make judgment calls, I?m sure we do it all the time ? even in horary if we are trying to steer someone through a profitable course in a legal matter, we are doing it. You could say that Barbara Watters was serving the interests of her client as an astrologer very well. I?d certainly want her to take that approach if she was working on a situation that mattered to me. So we either get involved or we don?t and if we do, we have to believe in what we are doing, be consciously ware of how our involvement might affect things, and aim to make the best job of it that we can.
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Sue:
On 2003-09-27 10:42, dhoulding wrote:
Well, to me that is the whole crux of the issue. It starts with whether to get involved or not in the first place. I agree that Barbara Watters was doing the best for her client and under those circumstances I would use every chart available whether I had permission or not. But one wonders whether she would have done the same thing if she had known her client was guilty. I would not have gotten involved at all. So the dilemma is not about whether it is right to use astrology in this way but whether to get involved. Once I'd made the decision to get involved then yes, I would use every skill I had. It's no different from a lawyer using their skills and information available to win a case.
Deb:
When I was at the Faculty summer school I got into conversation one morning over whether it was wise for astrologers to release details of their own horoscopes. I find it hugely frustrating that we don?t have accurate and reliable birth charts for people such as William Lilly, who are of great interest to us and clearly in a position to leave the information behind for the benefit of future students. I?ve never hesitated to let my details be known. I don?t see it as revealing the ?private me? just the astrological factors I was born under.
But the view I was confronted with was that when we expose our horoscope we make it possible for other people to ?take from our power? and negatively affect our energies. I don?t go along with this at all. I see my birth chart as a graphic representation of an astronomical moment, which I alone animate. Even so, I know many astrologers who take great pains to keep their birth details private.
I thought I?d ask forum readers for their views on this; and if you are one of those people who doesn?t want others to know the details of your birth chart ? why is this? (Of course, you might not want me to know that either )
Also, if you were working on an issue for a client, and s/he brought along another person's data without his/her knowledge or consent - hoping that it will help you place them in a more informed position to take advantage of a situation - is there any reason why you'd consider this unethical?
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Sue:
This secrecy of charts really annoys me. There are some well known astrologers who are famous for going to great lengths to keep their charts a secret while spending their lives talking about the charts of others. I think it is a real double standard. I don't believe for a moment that making my chart public is giving away my power. I can't expect people to share their details with me and then refuse to give in return. It is very unlikely that I will ever be famous enough for anyone to be the slightest bit interested in my birth details but they are certainly welcome to them and they are free to interpret my chart in any way they choose.
As for the other matter, I suppose it depends on what is meant by taking advantage of the situation. I would probably do it in a way that might help the client make sense of the situation and their place in it rather than to take advantage of it over another person.
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Deb:
I mention this second point because when I was a member of the APA they had a big debate running about whether it was ethical to make use of someone else's horoscope in a client reading without that person's permission. It's often done in relationship matters, but to make this more black and white, let's say it's done in a situation where your client wants advice on how to get the best timing for a legal dispute with another person - and brings that other person's chart along. Obviously, they are wanting to make the situation astrologically advantageous for them, and disadvantageous for the other person.
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Sue:
Okay, I see what you are asking now. I probably wouldn't use the other person's chart without their permission. I also wouldn't see it as necessary. I would see my role as working with the client and helping them to see what they can do to strengthen or understand their own position regardless of what the other person has in their chart.
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Deb:
I feel like I'm messing with your head
Say it was necessary, or at least useful to use that information, and say it was your sister you were looking to help out, and she was extremely distraught, so you were anxious to use every last drop of useful information that you could to help her out and find a good time to act. Would you use it then?
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Sue:
Geez Deb. Give me a break. It's after 1am here. It's been a long day
To be honest I'm not sure how I would answer that. It would be pretty hard to refuse a distraught sister. I would probably do it as long as I didn't feel as though I was compromising my own integrity. It reminds me of a case that Barbara Watters talks about in her Horary Astrology. Her long term client had been accused of sexual assault and she used every bit of information she could to make sure the accuser was put into a difficult position and her client would be found innocent. She was convinced he was innocent. But what if she knew him to be guilty. Would she still do it? In those sorts of cases you often won't know.
I think there are certain circumstances where I would do it but I don't know that it would be that clear cut as to what those circumstances might be.
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Tom:
Hello Deb and Sue and all,
I may have told this anecdote before, and if I did, I'm sorry but it is appropriate. Several years ago I participated in an astrology newsgroup and the topic of giving out one's birth information came up. There were some who had no problem with i,t and others who did as a matter of privacy. One comment I'll never forget came from a young woman from Europe, possibly the UK I don't recall.
She was annoyed at people who gave out such personal information without regard to any sense of propriety. She was particularly annoyed at Americans who in her words, thought nothing of giving out their birth data to any one who asked but who would never get undressed on a public beach.
I would have said the opposite.
I am not terribly concerned about what anyone thinks of my chart. I'm too subjective to give myself an honest reading, so I might get insight from others. However giving out my birthdate, and place is helpful to the unscrupulous who might use that to swipe my identity or perhaps obtain a false social security card in order to adopt my identity to escape the law or a jealous lover.
I've given out my birth data online and even on this list, but I am increasingly reluctant to do so unless I know the person.
As for using the chart of a third party who has no knowledge of the request, I'm queasy on that, too. Circumstances should dictate. A parent having problems with a child, even an adult child, might be looking for legitimate insight, andI would probably use the information then.
Someone venturing a chart of a person they dislike and want to gain advantage over would make me reluctant to help unless the thrid party was a known criminal or threat to the individual who is seeking help (how often does that happen?). I would stay out of divorce messes. Been there; done that; got the T-shirt and don't wish to revisit even vicariuously.
I guess there are too many variables to give a concrete all-purpose answer.
Tom
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Viola:
As for the birth information, I don't have a problem with showing mine. Nobody can criticize me the way I can. Nobody can harm me the way I can, as well.
Astrology as one of the best tools for self searching journeys should actually reduce the need to hide to a necessary minimum. If it is not doing so, if a person is involved in power games, then the things have gone the oposite way of what they should have. I was much much more secretive before studying astrology than I'm now. Of course this doesn't mean I'm doing the blabla all the time. Many acquaintances of mine, especially the nodding ones, even don't know I'm in astrology, and the reason is simple - I'm not particularly interested in their opinion.
As for the second - life can make all sorts of messy situations, but there's one thing I've learnt - two or three times in my present job I went against the rules (by rules I mean the sensible ones), thinking this would do some good in the situation given. However it didn't turn out that way. I regreted it later. Mind you, this is not the recipe - this is just a personal experience. Maybe it was me who was bound to learn such a lesson.
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Lulu:
On 2003-09-26 17:19, Tom Callanan wrote:
A couple of years ago on panplanet, we had a site for members charts so that when they discussed personal issues, others ( members) could access the chart. I received a warning from my server, that there are people around who seek out birth data for the sole purpose of creating identities possibly for criminal intentions. My server cited the fact the I gave not only my date and place of birth, thus enabling someone to obtain my birth certificate but also a bio, which many of us have if we have websites. I outlined several anecdotal items that could help to build a 'profile' is someone was so inclined. Not wanting to be overly Piscean about this, but the chart is fine - I suggest not posting your actual data. That way it would take an astrologer to figure out the date and even time, but unlikely the place. Don;t know too many astrologers who would want to adopt a new identity, except Lulu!I've given out my birth data online and even on this list, but I am increasingly reluctant to do so unless I know the person.
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Deb:
Thanks for bringing that up, I?d never even considered that angle. I think Tom and I are the only ones who have offered birth data online, along with full names and locations, so I?ve edited the post where you gave your birth data Tom, to show only co-ordinates and not birth place.
As for this issue of using data without permission, I don?t think there is a black and white answer and the only thing I don?t like is when people try to turn it into one. As an astrologer I see it as my God-given right to use any astrological data I can that might be useful to me. If the information is available, then I don?t regard it as anyone?s intellectual property. The deeper issue is, not whether we give advice that might benefit one person to the detriment of another, using data with or without their permission, but whether we do that at all. We frequently have to make judgment calls, I?m sure we do it all the time ? even in horary if we are trying to steer someone through a profitable course in a legal matter, we are doing it. You could say that Barbara Watters was serving the interests of her client as an astrologer very well. I?d certainly want her to take that approach if she was working on a situation that mattered to me. So we either get involved or we don?t and if we do, we have to believe in what we are doing, be consciously ware of how our involvement might affect things, and aim to make the best job of it that we can.
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Sue:
On 2003-09-27 10:42, dhoulding wrote:
So we either get involved or we don?t and if we do, we have to believe in what we are doing, be consciously ware of how our involvement might affect things, and aim to make the best job of it that we can.
Well, to me that is the whole crux of the issue. It starts with whether to get involved or not in the first place. I agree that Barbara Watters was doing the best for her client and under those circumstances I would use every chart available whether I had permission or not. But one wonders whether she would have done the same thing if she had known her client was guilty. I would not have gotten involved at all. So the dilemma is not about whether it is right to use astrology in this way but whether to get involved. Once I'd made the decision to get involved then yes, I would use every skill I had. It's no different from a lawyer using their skills and information available to win a case.