A friend from abroad called me, talking about her ex, who's living in Europe meanwhile, after they separated a year ago.
They had no contact since then, but have some mutual friends who "deliver" informations.

They had sort of an affaire-relationship, sharing fun things like music, theatre, movies, food and so on, - and always great sex.
But both felt they weren't in love and so agreed to finish it all.

Now she heard he is on his own again, after an affair with a younger woman, and talks about his memories with her, my friend.
As if he didn't know how to overcome those memories.
My friend herself is not feeling regrets, but she also admits that the sex with everyone she met until she's alone, is sort of boring compared to what she was used to.
Seems to be a strong tie.

I see an applying sextile between him (Jup) and her (Moon).
Part of love is as well in appl. sextile with Moon

Jupiter is in her fifth house, ruled by Mercury (her significator).
Jupiter is in domicile, exaltation and term of Mercury.
While Moon is in her own domicile and in exaltation with Jupiter.
To me it looks like a "yes" to her question. I also read that she is maybe more in herself, more stabile than he seems to be.

Moon's next aspect is a sextile with Jupiter, her last is sextile with Sun.

- i don't know what Moon at the cusp of the 2nd house means, - nor what Mercury at cusp of the 6th could mean?


she was asking "Does he miss me sexually?" :

Bonfire

I think, reading between the lines, the question is less about whether this man misses having a sexual relationship with her, and probably more about whether this relationship will recontinue at some point in the future.

His significator is Jupiter, in detriment and just leaving combustion, and in the 5th house. It's noteworthy that their main significators do not aspect. The moon does apply to Jupiter, and Jupiter receives the Moon, but note that Jupiter isn't in a strong place himself to really provide a powerful reception to this sextile.

Whilst there may be some reciprocal interest to having a continued sexual relationship but I'm not convinced that this will occur to the level that the querent may be hoping or enquiring after right now. I just don't think this man is in the right frame of mind or in the right circumstances to pursue the kind of thing this woman wants, and as the swifter planet, I think it would need to be her to do the chasing and show the interest and try to make this thing happen.

Mercury will however apply to Venus, Venus receiving the Mercury, and so this sextile is further ameliorated. Whilst this may well be a sixth house matter, with Venus ruling the 6th, particularly as Venus is with a malefic, Mars, I'm inclined to think that this may be more likely to be a different relationship with someone else instead.

So my general conclusion would be that whilst this man may have some reciprocal interest in having a sexual relationship with this woman, that circumstance and the general mindset and condition that this man is in is such that actually it's unlikely to occur to the manner that this woman would hope for, but in fact the focus on this man may well wane anyway as her attention shifts to someone else entirely.

Thanks a lot, Paul, for your help!

- In general i also think questions are often sort of wrongly expressed, - but in this case, since i have watched the relationship over years, i think, it's really about the "sex" that both of them very much enjoyed.
they didn't feel in love, and specificly he had very romantic ideas about what he was looking for.
she was more uncontent about the intellectual level of their bond.
They had different reasons for to finish it, when it came to an end, - but they seemed sort of calm and realistic about it.
My friend is a very positive woman and was sure she was blocking herself from other, more serious partners. - and she was right.
she is in fact newly involved with someone and this man matches much better with her.
But the sex is less interesting, or exciting. (here i am not too sure about details, and don't ask;) ) -
With other words, i am pretty sure it's about sex, and she wants to know if he feels the same way, the same "longing" for her, - it might even be she's planning to contact him. She didn't say so, but i could imagine she thinking about it.

So i think Mercury sextile Venus might be her new man? - What do you mean with "6th house matter"? I know 6th house is a "weak" place, but how would it appear in real? Does it mean she'll be in trouble, or is it the boring every day life, that's shown here? The less exciting reality??

And may i ask again fr the moon in the 2nd?
I thought of pride that could avoid contact, - but how would you read Moon's position here?

Thank you very much for your time and patience.